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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here.  "It's good to hear your voice" is harmless.

"I owe you lunch… and dinner… and breakfast… and whatever else it is you want," is something I would never say to a coworker.  It's beyond flirting and it's inappropriate.   [/quote]

60YO man here and former flirt. 
I agree on both counts. The first is polite conversation. The 2nd is clearly over the line. 
With that said, I think it’s working on the OP.[/quote]

I actually thought the opposite. Could totally be read as he is saying she's done a LOT on this project and he owes her lunch. Then as he's typing he thinks that sounds cheap and he adds "and dinner" and then he's laughing to himself and thinking that sounds dumb and decides why not throw in the only other remaining meal option..."and breakfast..." and sums it up by saying "and whatever else it is you want" in order to show his gratitude for her help! This doesn't have to be sexual in nature AT ALL. Could be he's thinking "I'll give you my parking space" or "I'll even fetch your coffee all week"...BUt really I think OP would know if he meant something by this based on how he normally speaks to her/interacts with her.

The other one is weird "It's good to hear your voice" is very intimate sounding and personal for a work call.[/quote]

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