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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This has to be a troll.[/quote]

I don't think so.  Op probably went to marriage counseling thinking all the problems were due to DH.  She wasn't expecting, nor is she accepting, of the fact that she is at fault too.  And now that DH is putting effort into what was asked of him, more attention is on her.

Op wants to keep claiming he is selfish.  OP is the selfish one.  She keeps making excuses instead of trying to work with DH.  Op would rather be divorced than wrong.  Oh, and as for the "how do I tell kids to give up an activity?'.  That's the price you pay when you have 4 kids.   They don't get to do everything.

But it's ok OP.  Keep making excuses.  Just don't blame your DH when you end up divorced.  [/quote]

+1. They probably started going after the emotional affair came out, and she figured that the therapist would say it was all his fault since he was the one who got emotionally entangled with someone else. OP isn’t getting support from the therapist in her opposition to making any of her DH’s requested changes, so she’s come here instead looking for back-up. Now that we’re not giving it to her either, she’ll probably disappear from this thread and seek validation in yet another venue.[/quote]

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