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[quote=Anonymous]He sounds like he does the easy, check the box, superficial stuff if he’s around. But doesn’t have any goals for his kids or family or do any planning for sports, trips, meeting goals. Adhd kids need someone watching their habits and homework. Girls need parent who both listen and respond. Not minimize or ignore. Spouses need someone to tag team with, share the mental load and do simple execution tasks. All of that, not just the easiest last step part. Counseling can provide frameworks for all of this. I’d also look into adhd if this DH cannot figure out what to do with his family (ie if his MO is to wait for you to make a request otherwise he never thinks to do it= bad). [/quote]
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