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Reply to "My head and my heart can’t agree on 50/50 custody"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Just let him fail and slowly move to more custody for [b]youself[/b] He isn't going to change who he is and actually start doing the work. [/quote] NO. Do NOT take 50/50 custody but do more than 50 percent of the work. WHY would you tell a woman this? Why are women even open to doing this? You think a man would do this? Do NOT do his work for him. He won’t even be your husband. [/quote] OP, ignore this poster. ^ The legal point flew right over their head. A parent gives the child what is necessary, if that goes over 50% at time, so be it. If parenting or behavioral pattern emerges of concern, document, and if there is a need to ever modify, explore it. You can have 50/50 as a needle and it go s little over or beneath on occasion and never have any issue worth jeopardizing a good coparenting relationship or going to court. It’s when you remove options protecting a child’s interest, or agreements are violated, that court enforcement should step in. [/quote]
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