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[quote=Anonymous]"Always take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor never the tormented." -Elie Wiesel No silence, OP - I like some of the PPs who say that you should model for your child how to be a leader in a really awful situation. So, take it seriously, but don't allow yourself to further victimize your child *or* to let your anger lead. Try your hardest to distance yourself from the personal outrage & hurt your child experienced and do allow the coach/administrators to determine the appropriate school/team response. If your child wants to quit, tho, I'd 100% support her in that decision. I just wouldn't sweep it under the rug. All of the kids playing that sport for sure saw her humiliation -- so your bringing it out into public view for redress isn't the problem, it's the original nasty bullies who created the problem.[/quote]
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