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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm 29 and my DH is 59. A major age gap I know but I think it works for us because I am an old young person. I also don't want children and wouldn't have trusted a guy my age to not change his mind down the road (ironic I know). DH already has BTDT with kids and he definitely wont ask me for kids so it works both ways.[/quote]

Ok, to each their own, if you are happy great. You should think of this as your first marriage, as he will be dead unless you are much sicker than him. Or you might love being alone and still able to do things, I mean you are 29, so who knows what life will bring. As you are 29, you might think you know everything, we all did, but the reality is we were all still pretty naïve and dumb at that age. And you might never want kids, I got married younger and didn't think about kids at all. Like zero thought... and then I did.  Wanted, wanted to have baby, and never thought prior about having a baby at all! I was that driven studying, working, thought about going for PhDs, research, and then I was just dying to have a baby. Why, no idea, it just happened. I looked at the kid in a grocery store and I wanted one. We are still pretty animalistic deep down, that is what I think. Even my friends who knew me asked me later on, how did I have kids, I never said never, but I never, ever mentioned kids, nor was I in any way "maternal." Even now, I adore my kids, older teens, but I am not really fond of kids, even though I worked with kids. If anything, working with kids made me realize I need to find a different job! Which I did![/quote]

The amount of projecting in your post is lame. You said you never gave children any thought when you married. That's very different from someone who militantly against having children like the PP. Nothing wrong with not wanting children.[/quote]

I agree, nothing wrong with not wanting children. And I only posted my perspective, I mean she might have kids with another husband if she really falls in love, and he wants kids. As for militantly being against something? Well, only someone very naïve and not worldly is ever militantly against something. If she(or you) were older and wiser you would realize the stupidity of that statement. But you can't, so cheers, enjoy your idea that things don't ever change.[/quote]

Well I'm militantly against misogyny. Is that naïve? Stop being so judgmental. [/quote]

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