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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Why does an educated mid 50s woman need 15 years of alimony to get herself back into the workforce and be self supporting? She sounds like a lazy abuser of ancient alimony laws. It's crazy this can still happen in 2018, thank god for alimony reform laws. He should go back to court and have her fair market value income imputed against his payments, and the term greatly reduced based on a reasonable career trajectory.[/quote] +1,000. Agree![/quote] +1 Alimony should last no more than five years. That’s enough time to get back into the workforce. You’re already getting half of the assets. Women today have the choice to SAH or work outside the home. I understand when the children are young, or are special needs, but once they are in school full time, being a SAH is a choice.[/quote] A choice that couples make together and that still benefits the working spouse’s career.[/quote] In reality, many women pressure their husbands to agree to let them be a sahm. Middle class sahms in particular usually push their way into the lifestyle. It's not so black and white. [/quote]
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