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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn’t merge households or finances with someone’s paying alimony or child support, because I really don’t want the drama of the ex-wife and her children (and there is always drama). I also wouldn’t merge households or finances while I still had children living in my home. But I am fine on my own, financially, emotionally, and otherwise. YMMV.[/quote] Zero drama from my DH’s XW. And DH paid for most of my stepson’s college costs although SS is actually not his bio kid (XW wasn’t married to biodad and my DH has raised him since toddlerhood). A lot of drama is caused by second wives demanding a reduction in CS or changes to custody to suit their preferences.[/quote]
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