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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's what they should do. If they're only in their 20s and this is a multiple cheater situation, this isn't ever going to get better. So, your friend should talk to a lawyer on the appropriate steps, serve the papers (possibly right before the trip -- the idea of distance is good, but if the spouse who will need to pay child support and be able to be a functioning parent after this is all over is likely to lose their job, then I'd wait) and then be determined to be the best coparent they can be going forward. Don't use kids as weapons or hostages and yes, it's going to hurt for a while -- friend will need to "fake it until they make it".

Do not drag anyone else's spouse into it. It is never because "the other spouse needs to know and I'm doing it for them". It's for revenge. Keep your own house in order and let other people deal with their own stuff. [/quote]

You are really ignorant about the continued damage it does not to tell. It just makes things worse for the other betrayed spouse. It is easier to recover from an affair the sooner it is discovered and ended. The longer t goes on, the worse it gets.[/quote]

Where did you get your Psych degree?[/quote]

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