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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So are you cheating wives still married? And are you just there in person but gone emotionally? Is it true that once the woman cheats the marriage is over? [/quote]

Our marriage isn't over, our love life is. My husband is very successful and he is a very good father who does a good share of the household stuff. I think we are more than roommates because we are really connected and devoted to our children. I play the good corporate spouse at his company events and we have a pretty active social life. After about 12 years we just lost physical interest in each other. It's not something we really argued about since it seems to be mutual. Two years ago I met a very nice guy and we get together about once a month. I sometimes wish I had the same physical desire for my husband as I have for him but it just hasn't happened. My husband travels a lot on business and it wouldn't surprise me if he has cheated. We will be empty nesters in four years and we'll see what happens when we cross that bridge. [/quote]

This.  We have a great life other than our sex life.  DH and I still love each other but the physical interest is gone.  Not worth ending a marriage over and we are in our 50s/60s.  I expect to grow old with him content and happy.  At this point, I don't care if DH cheats and gets his physical needs met elsewhere.[/quote]

I agree with you. I'm 62 and my husband is 66 but my interest in sex is zippo and his interest is very high. We spoke about it a lot for almost two years and I know he was very frustrated and then the conversation suddenly stopped. I don't know for sure but I think he found an outlet and it's not porn. I think I know who it is and while I'm not fine with it his frustration is gone and we have a very good life together. [/quote]

You don’t get to vote on his sex life, having opted out of it.[/quote]

PP here - I'm not fine with it but I accept it because I opted out. As long as he doesn't flaunt it I can live with it. [/quote]

So basically DADT[/quote]

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