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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP- you need to figure out you.
If you TRULY don't want kids now or ever, go get a vasectomy TOMORROW.  Done.  To not do so is very very irresponsible.

Then if you have a vasectomy, women really know from day 1 that you will not have children.  Then it is their choice to stay.

Most of my friends (male and female) who didn't want children, eventually did want and have children.  Why?  Because they wanted a family of their own to grow old with.
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You have obviously never visited a retirement community in this country.[/quote]

First of all, how do you know which people you're seeing there have kids or not? Second, there are many elderly people who would (and do) choose to live in an organized community with other people in a similar stage of life rather than with an adult child, but still have very enriching extended family lives.

But more importantly: when people are talking about a family of their own to grow old with, they generally don't mean, "I want someone to sponge bathe me when I'm 85" (although this is something I've done for my own mother!)...they're talking about experiencing all the joys of having a family in your 50s, 60s, 70s. Which, make no mistake, are plentiful[/quote]

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