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[quote=Anonymous]I think one thing to consider is that you both are young - when a lot of your DH friends are out partying and living it up, you guys are at home with an old house and two kids. He sounds like he is actively more involved with the kids (baths! I wish my DH would give the kid a bath) than some DH's even if he is on the iphone. What my DH and I do - which really helps is we have an "off night" - so one night a month (granted, it's all either of can handle at our age) - we go out with girls (or guys) and just have fun. (The girls usually go out dancing. Woo.) We also have a date night once as month as well, with a sitter. Those two nights out a month really have done a lot to help us be non-parents and bring us back to sanity (it's amazing what a dinner without a sippy cup can do). Last thing I suggest, and it sounds silly - but believe it or not, it works for us. More sex. Whenever my DH or I are really feeling like we're in a funk as parents....and that all we do are bath, feed, diapers. We go into the bedroom and have sex. Good luck![/quote]
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