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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, go over and read the thread about SAHMS giving up great careers.  What is going on in your family is why having a SAHM in the family can be a great thing.  My DH hated parenting, too, when the kids were little -- we had twins so it was a ton of work and overwhelming.  I stayed home after about 9 months.   This enabled DH to focus on his career without limits.  He was happier, and I have loved raising my own children.  Yes, I gave up a fabulous career that I miss (do it part time, but it's not the same), but our family life would have been Hell if I hadn't.  I'd think about it if I were you.  And if parenting isn't your thing, either -- well, sorry to be snarky, but why on Earth did you have children together?[/quote]

OP again - I love parenting and I thought DH would too.  When we got married (at 24...) we decided we wanted to have kids right away and he was the one who wanted more (I wanted two).  Then they actually came and he wants none.[/quote]

I hope the people who are reading the "should I have kids younger or older" are reading this thread.[/quote]

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