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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]continually encouraged you to buy 'sexy' clothes?  DH and I have been married over 10 years and have two small (not infant) kids.  We have a few solo (without kids) trips coming up and he keeps making comments about how I should buy different bathing suits, sexy lingerie, etc.  He keeps bringing it up - like I'll forward him a sale email from a store we both like and he'll respond "last chance to get that sexy gear for [vacation location!]"

not sure why this bugs me.  We have a decent sex life - but him doing this makes me feel somehow cheap, or something.  He's also left lingerie from my drawer out for me to wear in bed before - like if I'm in the shower or something - and I'm not a fan of him doing that either, but can't pinpoint why.[/quote]

Stop over thinking this. He wants YOU. he thinks you are sexy and after 10 years, you should be happy he still is trying to find ways to mix it up a bit.  This is really a very minor ask on his part.   Its clearly a fantasy he has, why won't you do it? [/quote]

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