Reply to Would it bother you if your husband...

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Would it bother you if your husband..."

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He is trying to spice up your love life and is trying to tell  that you are becoming boring. All normal after few years of marriage and kids. Next comes more dirty talking, then watching "movies" together, then being comfortable telling him who you wouldn't have minded sleeping in from your mutual past. These are all signs of healthy marriage and him telling you means he is comfortable to tell you what he wants. You shut him down more and more.... well you figure it out. Having a long lasting marriage and healthy sex life takes work. No wonder all these people are posting about open marriages![/quote]

This is exactly true. Men consistently move the goal post.

As soon as you "fulfill" his next need he will just convince himself it is not satisfying anymore and ... once again, move the goal post.

This is why married sex becomes a chore, men constantly moving the goal post. [/quote]

If you have a spouse that makes it your 2nd job then its time to leave. Nothing worth that misery.[/quote]

I can see why there are so many unhappy marriages here. It is not one spouse, this is how both people grow together. Sometimes it is a wife, sometimes it is a husband. A lot of stupid people who have no idea how to actually be married. It is mutual and normal development, not demand from the husband.[/quote]

Yes it could be that way but that is not what OP is describing.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics