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[quote=Anonymous]Op, I’m not usually a fan of this reccomendation, but at your point I would consider giving him an ultimatum. Either he starts to contribute by doing xyz or you hire a housekeeper/household manager and pay from your joint account. If he pitches a fit - don’t back down. What’s he going to do, throw the housekeeper out of the house? Cancel the check? No. This man can barely get his own sh*t together, nonetheless fire a housekeeper. Try counselling for yourself. He probably won’t go if you begged him. However, on the off chance he’s agreeable, the $200/hr you pay is WELL worth it to have the therapist call your husband out on his crap. Get a male therapist if you can. Also, what was it like when your kids were newborns?[/quote]
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