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Sorry, bad example.  That's just the genetic lottery.  Some guys are hung like a horse.  I have all my hair. Shrug.  Point I was making is that I'm not fat, balding and bad in bed and it apparently makes no difference in how sexually attracted to me my wife is. [/quote]

Do you wonder if it’s your behavior or personality?[/quote]

OP here and in the same situation as PP.  I can absolutely guarantee you us men - who keep themselves up, make money, good fathers, reasonably good shape and who would be in utmost demand if single - are the silent majority on DCUM.  That there is a major desire disparity between the genders isn't disputed, despite some amazing unicorns on here professing their desire for sex with overweight husbands.

My wife, for example, wanted little to no sex for years and years in my 30s.  I was in best shape of my life, kids were little, I was hitting every professional and father metric, date nights, didn't matter.  Talked about it, didn't matter.

Fast forward, my wife took up running, she got herself in better shape, kids are less demanding.  Me?  I am objectively older and in worse shape, but now she wants sex at least some times.

Point - her desire has zero to do with me, it's how she feels about her.  Extra point - it seems like if she feels threatened by another woman flirting with me, she revs up her game.  I didn't look any different when we went out than when the flirting started.  But for the younger woman paying me attention that night, our end of the night would have been platonic.

I chalk it up to basic female biology.  Trying to rationalize it seems pointless.  Figuring out how to exploit it without ruining my marriage is the point of this thread.[/quote]

Guy here - I definitely agree that [b]one component of a woman’s drive is how she feels about herself[/b].[/quote]

This is actually something that certain morally challenged guys who "date" married women exploit very effectively. [/quote]

It’s always those evil guys!  How do they exploit that?[/quote]

Not today, ISIS, not today. [/quote]

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