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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd like it if my DH was in shape enough to be hit on at a bar. He's not.[/quote]

You'd definitely like it if he was in better shape. But, if you've been with him for any length of time, there's a pretty good chance you still wouldn't want to have sex with him. [/quote]

I'm genuinely sorry that this is your experience, but this is really not true of all women. The women in my family have always been horndogs all through the lifespan in their marriages. Maybe it's a hormonal profile thing? I don't know. But I do not think it is universally true that all women stop wanting sex with their husbands after a couple of years. [/quote]

+1000. I still have near daily sex with my significantly overweight husband, but I resent that I keep myself up and he doesn't. Fitness is not just about yourself. It's about what you think your spouse deserves. [/quote]

Thank you, this. I have sex 2-3x/week with my overweight husband. I'd have it more, but I'm not particularly attracted to him when he lets himself go. I keep myself up (or technically, weight down) and he doesn't. I exercise. I watch what I eat. He doesn't. We took a hike earlier this summer when we were on vacation, and I found myself wondering if I was going to have to call 911 off the mountain. But sex, I love.

To be frank, though, [b]I don't keep myself up for my husband. I do it for me[/b]. [/quote]

A DH here.  I do this, too.  Unlike your husband, I have always kept myself in shape.  But I learned a long time ago that for my DW, it doesn't matter if I have a six pack, full head of hair, look ten years younger than my age and get looks from women everywhere I go.  She has very little interest in me sexually and I could just let myself go and we'd probably have the same amount and quality of sex as we do now.  I make the effort to look and feel good for my own sanity. [/quote]

How do you keep your full head of hair? I just turned 47 and mine is starting to shed.  I’m going to see a doc next week.[/quote]

Sorry, bad example.  That's just the genetic lottery.  Some guys are hung like a horse.  I have all my hair. Shrug.  Point I was making is that I'm not fat, balding and bad in bed and it apparently makes no difference in how sexually attracted to me my wife is. [/quote]

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