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[quote=giaeve707]You make perfect sense to me. You committed to this man and meant your vows. You love him and want him. Now you have to figure out how to break that attachment. And it’s hard. You already said you did all you could and you changed. I always wonder why we do that to ourselves. Why we feel like it’s just US that needs to change rather than both. Have you started counseling yet? A counselor can help you work through all of this. His affair wasn’t your fault. It’s something in him. But yes, that’s hard for us to separate. I wish I could fast forward your healing for you. But time will help that. What hobbies do you have? What do you like to do? What things have you wanted to learn or do that you haven’t been able to? What brings you joy? Focus on those things. Build yourself into an even better you. Invest in you. Instead of looking back and at the what ifs, tell yourself “now what” and “I can!” From a BTDT, you can get through this and find happiness again. You deserve it.
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