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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here, yes absolutely I would cheat if she did.  Monogamy sucks enough as is.  No way she gets to have fun and I don't.

Actually, not sure I would be that devastated if she cheated, but I would probably feign it simply to get the hall pass.  That I would use constantly but not confess until she caught me.

Seems worth the trade, and now I hope I catch her cheating![/quote]

[b]Wouldn't it be easier to be single and date?[/b]

That's one of the reasons I wouldn't cheat, merely end it.  However, I would mess with their job, etc. and other AP's life before my exit.  People that find it fun and cute to hurt families should be ok when the favor is returned. [/quote]

And lose access to my kids and half my wealth?  Nah, not worth it.  Happy to stay married, and get some on the side.  Assuming she goes first.  It's just sex.[/quote]

I feel like a lot of PPs here have only been married a few years and have this idealistic view of things. I remember those days *sigh*

[b]Now that i've got some years of marriage and experience under my belt, its easier to step back as see the bigger picture. I'd prefer to see my kids daily and keep the combined wealth and our house with a great school.[/b][u] [/quote]

PP here... to add, in this make-believe scenario, if I were ever to get caught revenge cheating I would always say the OM is bigger. Just to eff with him. 
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I think you, PP and I and others are in the silent majority here.  Not that cheating is ok, but after years of marriage and kids and joint bank and retirement accounts and years of shared history, and caring for each other, well....cheating just doesn't seem to be the END OF THE WORLD/ABUSE/GASLIGHTING/REVENGE that dominates the board.

And yes, the OM was bigger and hit a spot he hasn't/couldn't.  Looked just like my ex. :wink: [/quote]

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