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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've never opened my husbands mail unless it's an utility bill of some sort; most of which are paperless. However, today his personal cc statement came in the mail and I opened it. Low and behold a hotel charge was on there from two weeks ago.

I remember this weekend as he came home early Sunday morning from hanging out with friends in Baltimore that Saturday night; the hotel was in Clinton, Md. We haven't had sex going on 6 weeks now, so my women's intuition kicked in and I now think he's had an affair.

How should I bring this up to him? I don't want to argue about it at this moment with all the other tension spewing in the home due to lack of sex, but I do want to get to the bottom of this somehow.

And before anyone says why aren't you guys having sex, I guess I know why although he does a low sex drive anyway.

He's an Aquarius so he stays to himself a bit and is unemotional so there really isn't any affection per se in our relationship so things pertaining to that have't been out of the norm.

I can't believe I'm writing a post about this after reading so many threads on this topic for the past 7 years. Lawd!
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Wait a minute, your husband came home in the early hours on a Sunday and you didn't think to ask him where he'd been all night?  If he said he had been out with friends the whole time, then obviously he lied about the hotel, so call him on the hotel receipt.  How did you not have this conversation before, even without the evidence?  I cannot imagine not asking my husband where he had slept if he came home early in the morning.  If he said he hadn't slept and then I found a hotel receipt, I'd confront him.  If you didn't even ask, then you have bigger problems than the fact that he's cheating on you.[/quote]

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