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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No way should you say yes.  This is a GUYS' trip not a 3rd wheel trip.  She sounds like a controlling, insecure nutcase - she's "not comfortable" with her brand new boyfriend fulfilling a commitment he made before he even knew her?  I would respond with something like, "Dude, are you f*%*^ crazy?  I'm sure she is a lovely woman and I look forward to spending time with the two of you at some point, but there is no way I'm going on this trip as a 3rd wheel."  Don't feel guilty - just help him see the absolute absurdity of his ask.  If she is this controlling after only 3 dates, God help this guy if he marries her.  Your friendship will be toast.

And I can't believe people above are telling you that you should let her come.[/quote]

I could be wrong, but I believe OP is a woman.  [/quote]

OP’s physical gender doesn’t negate that its[b] a guy[/b] trip, marked by laughs and zero drama. The inclusion of this new clingy GF automatically makes it not a guy trip, which is not what OP had signed up for. [/quote]

How is it a guy trip if one of them is a woman?  You don't know the op,the friend or the girlfriend!  How can you all judge away?  If op is uncomfortable just tell the friend that you would rather keep the trip as is OR he pays for your half of the trip ( and you can go later)  At least you will have your money.[/quote]

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