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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]After years of unhappiness and my DH refusing to consider a sex therapist or open marriage I'm in an affair.

AP and I built on a close friendship where we were trusting and open about the pain of sex ending in our marriages.

[b]We have wonderful sex,[/b] a great friendship, and deep love. Our spouses have the lifestyles they were used to and our kids have intact homes.

It's the first time I've been truly happy in the years since DH's sexual abandonment.  [/quote]

When and where? And spouses don’t know?[/quote]

We have sex about once per week in various hotels (more accurately, 2-3 times on one day per week). Sometimes it's a weekend morning. Sometimes we'll free up a few hours during the work week, like 10-1pm. We also arrange to synchronize work trips together. We don't work together or even in the same field but we both need to go to the same cities fairly often. In the past year we've coordinated five business trips.

When either of our spouses travel we find more time.

Spouses have no idea. We're very discreet.

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