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[quote=Anonymous]Practical advice: If you hate being wrong, look at that more carefully. You don't have to embrace being wrong, but in a relationship, you have to be okay with not ending every discussion being right. It's better to collaborate than compromise. Remember you are on the same team. Catch her being amazing. Catch her being delightful, and take hosent joy in that. Show her by touch and tone of voice (not just the exact denotation of what you say, but how you say it) that being with her brings you pleasure. If it doesn't -- and you can't -- then marriage is a prison for both of you. Not every moment is going to be flowers and laughter, but there has to be some joy. You strike me as someone who probably feels pretty stretched thin and like there's no reserve left. Like a rubber band stretched to the point of snapping, but you are trying really hard to do things right. I'd much rather see you happy.[/quote]
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