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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

Any practical advice here? Calling me a dick or telling me to get divorced doesn't actually help me solve the problem.

This is not a case in which I rejected 100 furniture options suggested by my wife. We just began discussing furniture, for the first time, a couple weeks ago. She suggested one item that I didn't find appealing. I didn't tell her the choice was ugly or anything like that. I just said that I would like to look at other options and find something we both really like. She then told me to decide on my own. Well, that response kind of sucks the joy out of furnishing the house together. What is the point, if we can't do it together?

To the posters who think I'm some kind of a control freak -- no, I want the opposite. I want a relationship in which my wife and I feel free around each other. Surely we ought to be able to discuss furniture options without fear of offending each other!!!! But we can't. This suffocates the conversation. So I focus on the kids, and she focuses on the kids, and this seems to keep the ship upright. But it is just sidestepping the problem, and pretending that everything is OK, when it isn't.
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OP, how are you in bed? If women is truly in love with you, she would not care much what kind of furniture is there. Learn to build the relations and learn how to communicate with women.

You are focused on what exactly you said to her. There is nothing wrong in what you told her about the furniture. It is about how did you tell her.

Don't focus on kids, focus on your relationship with wife. I am not telling to neglect kids, but be more aligned with your wife's needs.

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