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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you need to be more specific about what you need and express that. You are hoping he will read your mind. I’m assuming you are not REALLY suicidal - if you are, please seek immediate help - your vague complaints seem quite dramatic for someone whose worst offense is that he works a lot.

Right now all I’m reading is that you have a lot of contempt for a self-described loving guy. Is it his work hours or is it the fact that he doesn’t seem want to spend time with you? Because I don’t know that a change in his work hours is going to translate to him spending more time with you. Are you disconnected sexually? Emotionally? There has to be a reason why you are on such different pages. [/quote]

OP here. again.

Honestly: It's both. When he has a day off, he goes and plays golf or takes the kids away so that I can work.

Yeah. Nope. This isn't going to work is it. Like at all.[/quote]

Again, you are not taking any responsibility here and telling him what you need. Jumping to telling him that you want a divorce or you are going to kill your self clearly is not getting your point across. Yes, you want him to quit his dream job. That is the entire point of your post. It sounds like you don’t really want to make any sacrifices either, so I’d think about what you can bring to the table to repair a relationship that is obviously broken. He probably thinks he is being helpful taking the kids on his day off, or trying to work around your schedule. Tell him exactly what you need and want from him. [/quote]

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