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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why would you go scorched earth on a nice loving guy?[/quote]

because he is choosing his job (which  isn't needed to pay the bills) over his family, his wife's mental health and having a relationsip with his kids. Anyone can seem loving if you they only an hour a week with you. This guy needs to grow up. OP is single parenting, this  guy is just a roomate living for free in her house.   OP should just have an affair honestly until her husband figures out what to do about his job.[/quote]

He knows he's letting everyone down.  He's just trying to eek out a little more of it. [/quote]

OP here:

I don't know if he knows he's letting everyone down or if he has even considered that aspect. I think he's just so self involved in how great his life is that when I'm telling him I hate his job, he doesn't take it seriously. He's really happy with his job.

He just wrote me  an email as to how he will try to be better and home for the kids so that I can work.... but I just don't know if I can believe him. I'm at this state where I'm like: you told me a year ago that this new job would be great but it's not. So really, how are your changes really going to be for the better? He wants me to go into the office to work instead of staying at home and working and I'm really torn about that. I like my home office. I don't really want to go into the HQ to work. It's like he's decided this is the solution to making my wife happy and allowing me to continue with my happiness.

But it still doesn't fix the fact that he has no interest in spending time with me.[/quote]

Screw that. You shouldn't be the one making changes at this point. He wants everything his way, but really his way is what the problem is. He needs to change something, not you!![/quote]

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