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[quote=Anonymous]You should also consider unintended consequences of your choices - irrespective of your DH's. He has a sideline view - possibly entertaining in a removed voyeuristic way - and you're going to be reporting back the "drama" in whatever fashion that is between spouses. I get it.

But there are lingering and spidery feelings when you make these types of decisions - even with your spouse's "approval". If you all go on the trip as planned - drama ensues - you report back to DH and Friend A goes back home in whatever state. The likeliest outcome being that Friend A and Newbie B play it off just enough so no one can outright accuse of bad behavior and questions are posed but not directly answered and life ticks along.

If there is ever an incident - anywhere remotely close wherein you and your DH are having a bad spell...trust issues can be impacted by this. Don't think that everything your friends do outside of you - particularly very close friends and how you react and involve yourself to a degree doesn't have any affect on your own household.[/quote]

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