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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m not sure how well you know the betrayed spouse, but an almost universal sentiment among those who are cheated on is pain in realizing how many other people knew what was going on while the spouse was oblivious. I would not participate. [/quote]

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I'm not very close to the spouse and neither is anyone else in the friend group. I've known Friend A for many years; Friend A introduced the spouse to the group when they started dating. The relationship between the spouse and the friend group has always been fairly arms' length. We've all been much closer to Friend A. In terms of the betrayed spouse, we all follow that person on social media, chat about work/life/politics when together at a party or BBQ, attended their wedding (but all of the friend group sat on Friend A's side of the church).

Typical dynamics with a spouse who was introduced to an existing friend group. So also why I feel somewhat disinclined to directly intervene with the spouse.[/quote]

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