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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Women often confuse novelty for libido. Yes, we know that sex with new people is appealing, fun, exciting, intoxicating. Men experience that too! But even AFTER that initial novelty wears off, we still want to have sex with our women. THAT is libido.[/quote] It makes me feel unloved that my wife of 20 years doesn't really want to have sex with me. I've been with her exclusively for 20 years, I've experienced the stress of parenthood and of living as an adult, time has aged both of us, and yet I *still* want to have sex with her. Intellectually, I know this is mostly just a function of male sexuality being different than female sexuality -- and if you want to really get down to brass tacks, mostly just a function of differing testosterone levels. Emotionally, however, it *feels* like she just doesn't love me as much as I love her. [/quote]
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