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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I often say things like: "Cute dress!" "Love those shoes!" "Fabulous haircut!" I'm a woman, and I say those things to women. The only things I've ever said to men are along the lines of: "That's a cool tie!" "You look fancy! Why so dressed up today? Big meeting?" [/quote] Stop doing all of this. It's unprofessional. People don't need to justify why they are dressed up. I don't want you to comment on my hair cut. Stop.[/quote] We have a very collegial environment. I only compliment colleagues I know...not prefect strangers And guess what? When the guy who never wears a suit to work shows up in a $1k suit and new shoes, it usually pays off to toss him a compliment and see where he's going. I know that specific instance led to me being pulled into a project that yielded a bonus. Lastly, most people like to be complimented. I'm known as friendly and kind. Guess what? That pays off professionally. The strictly professional stiffs are never pulled into the circle of trust...which usually happens over social lunches, dinners and happy hours. Sorry, pp. Wah wah wah.[/quote] It’s all good until... someone complains or take a legal action against you. It could be that guy wearing $1000 suit. Yeah, really.[/quote]
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