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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't like the responsibility of having to coordinate (if my child is sick or we are out of town), but when it comes down to it, I just don't feel like it because there is nothing in it for me. [/quote] There's no problem in texting, "Larla is sick today so I won't be driving." OP, I think you're wrong in assuming that those who say it's no big deal are also takers. Once or twice a week for a semester I drove a kid home, adding 15-20 minutes to our trip. The parents were in some sort of bind, and I had the time, so I did it to be nice. In the end, they gave me a gift card for a restaurant, which was totally unexpected but kind of them. I don't understand why driving a kid 5 minutes to an activity YOU ARE ALSO GOING TO is such a chore. And this kind of attitude is the sort of thing that can make living in this area so tiresome. If you must get something out of it, what can you ask for in exchange? Would you do it for they drove half the time? If they paid you? If they took our kid for an occasional evening so you can get an evening out?[/quote] You are missing the point that this is for next year and there is NO BIND. The woman just wants her to take her kid every.single.time for no reason and reciprocation. I've met many like that--they won't stop from there.[/quote]
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