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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]After working one year in social services I can assure you that 14 year old girls do not get pregnant by 14 year old boys. If every single case I saw the dad was an older guy, usually 19-30. The parents of the girls don't seem shocked by the older boyfriend but then act schocked by the pregnancy. No one is prosecuted for rape unless the girls parents really push for it and I never saw that happen once in low income families. Im not saying we should "isolate" these girls but damn, it is shameful to have a baby or the dad of a baby of a teen mom. We need some societal standards. We need free IUDs for every single girl starting HS. all the social support in the world isn't helping these kids unless the parents are rich and step in to help.[/quote] [b]I teenage girl who is dating and having babies by grown men is self isolating herself from regular HS age kids. She is living life as a grown up and taking on adult responsibilities. [/b] I don't think it's up to HS teenagers to support a girl in that situation. She needs to be around other girls her age who are in similar situations and she needs to be exposed to good younger mom role models. Same goes with teenage fathers. If there is a lack of support at home, then social services should get involved to oversee and guide these girls. [/quote] This might be one of the most privileged things I have ever read on DCUM.[/quote]
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