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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I take the money I will still feel tied to him. He has used this money to control and limit me (pushing me into being a SAHM even after kids started school) all my adult life. I’m done.

I want to see his face when I tell him I don’t want it and I don’t need it.[/quote]

If you have a good lucrative job, why is it that he earned it all and you earned nothing? It doesn't make sense.

You will need money for retirement, and you are almost 50 as it is.

If you tell him no, you will be making him so happy and he will replace you with a 30 year old - is that how you want him to feel?[/quote]

I make around 50k - not lucrative but enough to live on my own and support myself esp. if I get a raise in the near future. I don’t need much. I just want a sense of freedom.[/quote]

you are being so dumb.  How much do you have in retirement? who is going to take care of you?  Do you have any clue how much money you need to retire?  SS isnt going to cut it. So you would rather be dependent on your kids than take your fair share of his money. do SAHMs lost touch with finacial reality, thats a serious question.[/quote]

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