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[quote=Anonymous]Everyone, I think you are missing the key element that explains where MIL is coming from - in addition to sending BFF away and sending a Facebook message telling her to stay away, she also lied to OP and her husband and said that BFF left of her own accord when she heard OP was having a hard time. You can talk about cultural norms pertaining to friends and family and childbirth all day. I think that if someone lies about their actions - not just minimizes the action but straight up lies - that indicates to me that they know what they did was wrong and are trying to make themselves look right. That’s what’s going on here. MIL didn’t want anyone but family to see the baby. She wasn’t interested in OP’s preferences at all. I can understand sending BFF away but the two follow ups were over the top and dishonest. [/quote]
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