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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A few thoughts:

1. It's nonsensical to say that women have the "advantage" of easier access to sex. Speaking for myself, I don't see it as an advantage. If I had easier access to [i]good[/i] sex, or to people I actually wanted to have sex with, then the word advantage might make sense. Sure, I could find someone to f*ck right now on Tinder or whatever the kids are using these days, but what would be the advantage for me? I am [i]extremely[/i] unlikely to find the experience worthwhile.

2. The fact is that [i]more attractive[/i] people have easier access to sex (i.e., good sex with people they find attractive). Our culture teaches the entitled schlubby self-proclaimed "nice guys" who whine about women being gatekeepers of sex that every man deserves a hottie - because non-hotties and/or (god forbid!) fat chicks simply don't count as sexual beings. They only pursue women who are way out of their league physically and they wonder why they can't get laid. On the other hand, I don't hear a lot of women complaining that superhawtsexy people only want to date other superhawtsexy people. I mean, duh.

3. You don't just get what you want in life because you want it. If you want someone, you have to be able to offer them something [i]they[/i] want. "I have a penis" is not a sufficiently compelling offer for most women. If you don't understand why not, you're probably a terrible lay. [/quote]

It's still an advantage. A woman of average looks has a broader pool of men she can choose from for sex than a man of average looks. You might be right that this advantage does you no good because, even with the expanded pool, you don't want to have sex with any of them. Still, if I give person A $10 to buy dinner and person B $0.50 to buy dinner, person A still has an advantage even if she won't eat anything other than champagne and caviar. [/quote]

I disagree with you. A man of average looks, but with money, will always be able to date up if he chooses. Not so for a woman. I see this a lot in DC.

Signed, a woman.[/quote]

If he has money it’s not dating up. It’s the woman who is dating up by definition. [/quote]

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