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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One question - why would a bunch of women on an girls' trip WANT to have dinner with your husband.  That's just weird.  If I had a female friend who was a trainer (or anything - accountant, lawyer, hairdresser) and we were on a girls' trip in Vegas and she said, "let's have dinner with one of my male clients," I would say - "why would I want to do that?" Sounds like a truly awful way to spend a dinner on a girls' trip.  No offense to your husband, but this is not what normal women do on girls' trips.

Which means something is going on. [/quote]

Maybe to have him foot the bill?  I left out he’s very handsome and successful.  So yeah, who knows her/their intentions.  We talked at length last night no one was there , I am confident in that.  Started out very heated and got better.   His view: the other situations were not affairs, while he thinks I over reacted to the past stuff, he understands. He thought we were beyond this now and didn’t see why it was a big deal.  He now understands my feelings on it and the perception if nothing else. We also talked about how odd it is to ask a twenty something group of young women for dinner and drinks when traveling solo and married.  Even if completely innocent , it looks bad, is hurtful to me, puts himself in a potentially vulnerable situation, and has set a precedent with this woman that they socialize outside of their professional relationship.

I know you all think I’m a wimp or being played.  I do think he was sincere last night.  We talked about boundaries moving forward and that If he doesn’t understand why Im feeling this way or why it was wrong and can’t happen again, then we are in a lot of trouble for our future.   I don’t know, I believe nothing happened , I even believe she was there on a girls trip , what is concerning is the “ I’ll be there too let’s grab a drink “ mentality on his part.  I’ll be watching things closely again.  I’m choosing to trust but verify for now. [/quote]

You are so gullible.

Signed, an OW who has quietly sat by while he wrapped up his nighttime convo with you, then banged the crap out of him[/quote]

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