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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And can I say, to those who say they don't "flaunt it" - thank you. 
Not that you should have to change your behavior to accommodate those in shitty marriages, but I really do appreciate the non-flaunting cause the flaunting couples make me feel so awful.  I have defriended a couple over it. Not because they did anything wrong st all and I feel so bad admitting this. But I literally could not take it.  We vacationed with them multiple times and I just could not do it anymore. I have never felt so bad about my life and my marriage. [/quote]

FWIW flaunters usually do not have it. Every flaunter I know flaunts in every relationship they are in and hasn't found one that stuck. [/quote]

I agree with this. The flaunters are usually grasping for straws. I wouldn't expect ANYBODY to actually say they were deeply in love (and, this board is anonymous, so it doesn't count. You can't flaunt here). The women I've known who most like to tell others how much they love and depend on their husbands are usually in couples counseling, watching their dh have an affair, or otherwise distracted by their own relationship bitchiness. Men don't seem to "flaunt" it the same way.

I remember one, I barely knew her, I'd met her twice. First time had been 7 years before, and I didn't particularly click with her. The second time we'd been in closer contact over the phone and facebook working on a project. But she came to my house to help me with something, and we were chatting as we worked and she opened up about how much she loved her husband, how she couldn't do without him, etc. etc. What in the world? It was weird and uncomfortable. I found out a few months later more about her and her husband, and they'd been in couples counseling a number of times, and he was having an affair when I'd been talking with this woman. So things couldn't have been as rosy as she made out. So weird that she'd have been trying to convince a stranger that she was so deeply in love with her husband, and he her.[/quote]

I agree. The couples I know who seem like they are most in love are those who don't really talk about their marriages at all but they've been together for a long time (decades) and still treat each other well in public.[/quote]

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