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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What does it mean to me?

I got really lucky. I started dating my future husband at 18, almost 19. We got married when I was 23, he was 27. We’ve been married for 13 years and have 3 beautiful, healthy, happy children. He is my very best friend, my partner in raising our children, and the absolute rock of my life. We genuinely enjoy each other’s company and just click in that way. We see the world in similar ways, we come from similar backgrounds and have the same goals and values, and have a similar sense of humor. Even now all these years later there’s no one else I’d rather just hang out and shoot the shit with.

I admire and respect him so much. He has a pretty demanding high powered job and I find it very impressive. And he’s the *best* father: openly loving and affectionate, hands on, involved and interested in every aspect of their lives the same way I am. I’m a SAHM now but when he’s home he’s in it 50/50 with me or else giving me a break because he’s such a generous, caring husband. I’ve known him for more than half my life now. Sometimes the weight of that history feels a little surreal. We are not the same people we were at 18/22 but luckily we grew up together.

And since people asked about sex, the sex is better than its ever been. We typically have sex 2x week which, judging by this board, is pretty good for a couple who has been monagamous for 18 years! And it’s always great. I almost always O twice.

Would I tell people we are “deeply in love”? Honestly no because I agree with the PP that that sounds really corny and cliched and like you’re bragging. But I do realize we have a really great marriage and a lot to be thankful for. I definitely got really lucky.[/quote]

When you say you "click" I wonder how much that has to do with who you are as people and the fact that you've been together for 18 years since you were 18, kwim? If you've been with the same person all of your adult life and you have a good marriage now, it makes sense to think that you guys went through those various phases together and that those experiences shaped you in similar ways.

[b]In other words, what I'm wondering is if couples who get together young have a better chance in the long run because they have an opportunity to grow together.[/b][/quote]

Statistically speaking they are more likely to divorce because they grow up and become different people. Maybe its like adversity in childhood, most end up effed up but the ones who make it out alright turn out to be exceptional?

But I married at 27 to my DH and feel deeply in love with him (we met when I was 22 though so hey maybe?)[/quote]

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