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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Almost like starting over. People change over time. Get to know each other again. Reconnect.  Say you miss her.

Any of us here are just guessing at why the frequency of sex has decreased. I know the frequency of sex is your priority, but you will need to prioritize the communication part to remedy the sex part. You will need to discuss this with her. Maybe the tub thing works for her, maybe not. Maybe she wants romancing, maybe that seems like more work to her. Maybe she needs more down time. Maybe there are health issues to address. Start with getting more time to communicate with each other.

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OP here.  The root of the problem is that there is no time for communication when DW comes home and is tired.  All she wants to do is veg (watch videos on her phone) and de-compress.  I get it.  I've been there too.  I'm willing to have the conversation and go out on date nights but there has to be reciprocity of desire to connect.  Absent that reciprocity, I would just rather settle for[b] sexy time[/b].    [/quote]

This might be why you’re not getting any. [/quote]

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