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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's trying, and he sounds like a good dad and person.

But... you are 32.  This is a lot of drama and complication for a 32yo.  What do you see as your future with him?  If not marriage, then cut bait now and move on.

I have a few friends who met and married older divorced men with kids, and they have messy lives.  Some turned out great.  Some are still very messy and I think they have regrets.  [/quote]

This. I'm 41 and I date divorced dads because there are so few non divorced dads in my dating pool. But at 32? No way. You can find someone without that baggage. Stop wasting your thirties on this mess.[/quote]

OP your time to met someone your age and have your own kids is running out. You met him when you were 26 and wasted your late 20's on him instead of having carefree fun.  You have options at 32 that you won't have in another 6 years at 38. Find someone your own age. It will never work out with this guy. He will always put his daughter and grandkids first.  You are way, way to young to be a step-grandmother. If you have a kid at 34 and that kid has a child at 34, you will be 68 before you become a grandmother. That's 36 years from now! [/quote]

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