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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How the author makes assumptions based on the words of cheaters is a real stretch. Cheaters have been known to lie![/quote]

In this case, the opposite viewpoint would not contribute much . . . not when it comes to claims of lose of intimacy and affection. The wives would counteract their claims of saying "yes, we had sex," but how [b]often, and what was the quality?[/b]

A divorced ex-boyfriend admitted that he got it often from his wife, it was just starfish sex. He wasn't great in bed, so I see where she got to that point. I am not sure how she married him. I couldn't stand it after 1.5 months.[/quote]

That's the wrong attitude to have about sex.  Sex is a product of two people, it isn't anything you get over the counter or from a vending machine.  A man whose approach to married sex is "here I am, satisfy me!" isn't very attractive.  Sex is not a service you get where you get to weigh in on its quality, as if you are the customer and it was provided to you.  Whatever quality sex you're having, you are one half of the reason this sex is the way it is. Good or bad. [/quote]

PP, here. You are reading words into the statement that are not there. If a DH says the quality sucks, it does. The same with a DW, if she says the quality sucks it does. You can be an excellent lover, but if countered with someone who is not interested, all the skill in the world will not improve things.

One party can declare the quality to be excellent or poor, it's a personal experience, and it have no reflection on the other party. I reserve that right as a woman and will give the same right to a man.

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