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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been involved with a married guy for three years. We see each other regularly, go out for drinks/dinner occasionally, communicate daily. He’s about 15 years older than I am so he gives me perspective about work and personal issues. He’s attractive and we have good (though not necessarily great) sex. I don’t ask about his home life. I know he’s a serial cheater, though.

I am single (divorced) and we are not monogamous. We have a deal about using protection with others (not his wife, though), and we both get tested regularly.

Things are winding down now between us just because after three years it’s a relationship and the point of this is that it wasn’t a relationship.

We care about each other but wouldn’t want to be together for real (at least I wouldn’t). He’s started talking about where he’d move if he gets divorced and I just tune it out.

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This sounds scarily similar— down to the age difference and work advice— to a situation I can see myself falling into at work if I don’t stop while I’m ahead. Just curious, if the sex is just ok and you don’t see yourself wanting to be with him, what is the glue that keeps you together? My guy is actually my mentor, but lines are clearly starting to be crossed. At work he’s all business, but he totally switches it up away from work.[/quote]

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