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Reply to "DH is going to blow a gasket. Give me strength."
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you have the strength to do this. I didn't read through all 5 pages, but one strategy you may try to use is emotionally detaching during that conversation. Meaning, whatever his reaction is will be his reaction. You need to say what you need to say irrespective of how he behaves during and after you say it. You don't have to get upset/emotional, just state the facts and lay it out there. Another approach I have sometimes used with someone similar is to write an email. Sounds ridiculous, but it gave the person (DH) a chance to really think about the words rather than have an emotional gut reaction that gets you nowhere. When I've had some things to 'say' that I know will be better received without feeling attacked, I've used that approach. [/quote]
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