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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Plenty of women, including women in high earning professions, don't care about salary (as long as you're financially responsible) and are either childfree by choice or ambivalent about children. It's the women that you're going after/attracting.

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The fact that he's renting at 35 would also be a turn-off for me. He just sounds like someone who doesn't want anything that might tie him down, doesn't want financial pressures or obligations. He wants a companion who just wants to do her thing which is his thing.

His posts [b]sound[/b] like an easy-breezy, low-maintenance guy, but I'm guessing by date 3 most women are discovering someone who doesn't just "know what he does and doesn't want," but is also not interested in anything out of his wheelhouse.

So, you're eliminating all women who want or have kids, you are renting, you say nothing about plans for the future ... This is not the profile of someone most women want. Sorry. The "hang-out-and-have-fun" phase runs its course for most of us, and when we look toward doing it again in retirement, it's not in a rented DC apartment.[/quote]

This. OP, I dated someone like you (possibly you lol) and what this poster says hits the nail on the head, especially with the idea of wanting nothing to tie you down. I know you say you want a committed relationship, but to me you fit the profile of a wishy-washy guy who is likely to ghost someone.

What's your apartment look like? The guy I dated seemed awesome at first, then the red flags started popping up. Specifically, his apartment was this dark, unkempt, dungeon-like space... made my skin crawl. His salary was the least of my concerns. [/quote]

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