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[quote=Anonymous]1. Consider scheduling sex twice per week on your best, most energetic days and times. This both frees you of "worry" that he might initiate sex on an OFF day, and lets you "look forward" to the ON days when you are pretty certain to have high energy.

2. Make a list of all the busy/stressful stuff you do over the course of a week. Carefully review this list and identify:
  a. 3% of things on your list that you can outsource: pay somebody else to do those things
  b. 3% of things on your list that your husband can take on: ask him to do these instead of you
  c. 4% of things on your list that really are not that important anyway: stop doing these entirely
 Having eliminated 10% of your busyness and stress, invest that time into being feminine and feeling good about yourself, mentally and physically, with the specific goal of being more mindful about wanting and enjoying sex.
 
3. Mix things up with toys, porn, sex in new positions and places, costumes, sext messages, kinks, books, visit a strip club, maybe even a Hall Pass for you, and one for DH. Novelty is very important for sexual desire, especially for women.[/quote]

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