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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here . I’m not a prude but that’s young IMO but also would have liked exp later in life. Why is that hard to understand? Some of you get a thrill responding viciously like I’m some sick asshole.

[b]I married young with lack of sexual/relationship exp and feel like I missed out. [/b]My wife didn’t and feels content. I love her and our life but have this nagging lack of contentment given the fact this ship (me) is anchored (lovingly).[/quote]

The bolded is your issue, and it has nothing to do with your wife and her past.  If you were her first and you poached her from a convent, it wouldn't make you any more experienced.  This conversation may be what put the issue into focus, but don't spend your time judging your wife for getting some before she met you.  That's a bad road to go down, and misses the point.  It's also more comfortable for you to focus on that external issue than to deal with the more frustrating fact that you now have the confidence and desire to sow some wild oats, but you can't do that and remain faithful.  But that's the issue you have to deal with.

Talk to her about exploring more, sexually.  Make sex a priority.  You have young kids, so it might not be as spontaneous as you'd like, but it's worth the work.[/quote]

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