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Reply to "If you are only comfortable having sex in an exclusive relationship....."
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[quote=Anonymous]Are people no longer able to tell if there's chemistry short of actual intercourse? If I've gone on a half dozen dates with a guy, it means we've also fooled around enough, short of oral or PIV, to tell if there's chemistry. Figuring out if monogamous sex could be good long term means starting to have monogamous, exclusive sex in the short term. That means getting tested together, exchanging results and deciding on mutually acceptable birth control. If we start having sex and decide its not sustainable long term, no harm no foul. If a guy can't engage in this kind of process, it doesn't mean anything good. Either he's not being honest about lack if chemistry because he wants sex, or he thinks he might be missing out on something else, or he's really not mature enough to discuss STD and pregnancy prevention and boundaries before sex. [/quote]
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