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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you mean, that hasn't worked?[/quote]

I mean, we dated for a while, fooled around heavily, and they were pushing me to have sex with them. When I told them that if I slept with them I would want us to be exclusive and in a relationship (not just going on dates and having sex a few times a month), they bailed.[/quote]

But it DOES "work" then! That's the whole point. These particular [b]men[/b] don't want to be exclusive with you. And you've found that out by laying out your standards/criteria [i]before[/i] sleeping with them. If you had slept with them (like most [b]girls[/b] do) simply hoping for exclusivity after the fact, they would have disappointed you. Some [b]girls[/b] are fine with this and just shrug and move on. You are not. So you are doing what you need to do to achieve your goal--which is to not have sex with [b]men[/b] who are not exclusively committed to you.

I think the bonus here is that at least the [b]men[/b] you are choosing to date are not lying about their intentions. That's a plus one. But not a big enough bonus to compromise your own happiness. Keep doing what you're doing and move on.[/quote]

Who are all these men sleeping with girls? Someone call the cops!

Seriously, it's creepy to acknowledge males as adults, while keeping females diminutive. Stop it.[/quote]

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