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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you mean, that hasn't worked?[/quote]

I mean, we dated for a while, fooled around heavily, and they were pushing me to have sex with them. When I told them that if I slept with them I would want us to be exclusive and in a relationship (not just going on dates and having sex a few times a month), they bailed.[/quote]

But it DOES "work" then! That's the whole point. These particular men don't want to be exclusive with you. And you've found that out by laying out your standards/criteria [i]before[/i] sleeping with them. If you had slept with them (like most girls do) simply hoping for exclusivity after the fact, they would have disappointed you. Some girls are fine with this and just shrug and move on. You are not. So you are doing what you need to do to achieve your goal--which is to not have sex with men who are not exclusively committed to you.

I think the bonus here is that at least the men you are choosing to date are not lying about their intentions. That's a plus one. But not a big enough bonus to compromise your own happiness. Keep doing what you're doing and move on.[/quote]

Thanks.[/quote]

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